Gotcha, I didn't know if that would be the way to go or if it would push her away... I just want to do everything right these next few days for S4's sake.

I wish I could take back that part of the convo last night but if I back pedal it makes me look weak. Like I will always be there waiting.

Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home