3. She started crying and said "Bummer, eh" I put my hand on her leg and said "Things don't have to continue to progress this way" I then walked back into the kitchen.
4. a Bit later I went back, sat down in front of her again and told her What I said was not a fleeting thought. I meant it. Then went to bed.
G, do not repeat that again. It may have had an affect...maybe not, but you do not need to repeat yourself, ok.