You are right, part if it is your fault that the marriage is having problems. We are all partially at fault. However, it is not your fault she is having an A and giving up on the M. That is a choice that she made instead of working on the M. Work on the things you know you have done wrong and be the best man you can be. However, be sure not to blame yourself entirely for this mess. It takes two people for a marriage to work.
Get into the DB books and start implementing the techniques Don't half ass it. The longer you wait the harder it will be. This is a great board and a great place to come for support. However, nothing can make up for your willingness to stay committed to following DB
Hang in there buddy
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."