Now I understand a lot of what I have done wrong in our relationship and also understand I need guidance on how to become a better person. She always told me that I only thought about myself. I didn't see it until now! She is right I have been selfish to her and the kids. Not mean or hurtful just never gave 100%. That part is my fault.
So is this the only thing that is wrong with your relationship? The only thing that will make you a better person?
You have been getting DB counseling, what does your DB coach say?
