Hi Ghost. Just joining the others and to say after your last post , while its sad your W wants a D , at least you know and can now move forward for you.

Do what's best for you and your kids and let W to her own devices

A lot of people on here live in a limbo state , Worried that everything they do or say will lead to a D. You don't have that fear anymore so that's a plus.

Ghost now has a clear road to look after ghost and his kids.

I was told along time ago to pick a path and stick to it. It seems your path is chosen so no more analysis of W or her actions or words

Huddy is giving you great advice so stick with it Control Ghost Let W control W

Take care. Rd