One of the nice guy traits is to put ones career on hold 'for the family' to always play it safe and never take risks ....risk = fear
Is this you? Have you read the book NMMNG? ...just a thought.
I am guilty of this as well. In my medical profession I am close to the top of the tree in terms of career progression, I could go into sales, or change career entirely, but am comfortable were I am - as I am a expert in the particular medical field I work in.
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