Thank you for the comments

I will be totally clear on this point I have not been the best divorce buster but I know that my W wants nothing less than divorce

She feels she has been controlled and abused and as such has zero respect for me

My actions to push forward will end with me in separate houses and no longer married to my W

Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.