So can someone help em to get my hard arround this
My w feels that I have been controlling and abusive to her and the children during our marriage yet she feels comftable leaving the children with me over the weekends and at night time when she works. She has remained in the house with me for the past five months and we have got along. If she really felt I was abusive would she not be looking to get out as soon as she could ?
She is talking about when we divorce me having the children 50/50 custody would she want for this if I was an abuser ...li am not never have been
I know this will mean days that I will not see the children and days that she will not see them and this really makes me unhappy.
Ghost, we have been over this before. Why go around this mountain again? Can't you lay it down and move on to something else? Stop trying to make sense of crazy.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
