I know it wasn't exactly DB approved. It's is how it came out and I can't change that. It was very hard just to sit on the same couch with her (opposite ends!) and look her in the eye for the first time since I knew. Even harder to keep my voice low and not just go off. I did very well on most points but I put a deadline for an answer out there...
As far as taking her back, it wouldn't be overnight and I explained that to her. We would have to enjoy each other's company and build trust back up. No contact with OM. I also put it out there that she would leave her job if we were to try this. Social media would be gone, because some of our problems stemmed from there, a lot of outside digs took place by people who don't know the story. Anyways I got a lot off of my chest today, have no idea where it leads me and planted some seeds. It is totally in her hands now and I'm just floating along until Friday.
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home