Uphill, I don't know that your actions were good DB strategy, but I can't say I blame you and I often think I should have done what you are doing when I first found out about ow. Living in limbo is extremely stressful and none of us deserve that. I also want to caution you that if you get the answer you want to hear, please don't trust her or take her back that easily, there is still a lot of work to be done for both of you to make sure you are not back in this same situation a year from now. I am eagerly waiting on your update.