Didn't fight hard enough? Really? Let me tell you something...
I fought for my W. Thrice. All in, each and every time:
1. OM before marriage--chased the bastard away 2. Unplanned pregnancy--"manned up" overnight and put a ring on it 3. She up-n-left because she was unhappy--DB through her sleeping around
Result? She hates me for ruining her life and says if I'm hurt that it's my problem because I should've let her fall. I'm not trying to compare here, just pointing out that in some situations you will lose no matter what you do.
Me:31 W:31 D:6 T: 9/2001 M: 1/2009 W unhappy: 6/14 W moves to parents: 10/14 W wants D (angry): 12/14 W okay w/ S: 2/15 W wants D (calm): 2/15 W gets new job/place: 3/15 W admits PA, suggests MC: 8/15