I'm still trying to figure this situation out. HE wanted the D. HE filed. It only started getting ugly when he figured out he was going to have to pay me something after raising 5 kids and moving 8 times. Then, he wanted to reconcile up until the moment I freaked out and wrecked two vehicles. I truly believe he expected me to only hurt myself.
Is this about money? About control? My gut feeling is money, but he is attempting to dictate where I go and what I do next, so there are some control issues there. He wants to manage what I tell our children. He's so bitter about the money, though. His spew and hatred are hard to bear. After I backed down today he was much nicer. I just need to keep my head down and say yes to whatever he says until I can leave. He won't leave because the lease is in his name and he works from home. He badgered/pressured me into signing the paper releasing me from the lease. I can't pay the bills, in any case.
I've talked to my L, who was supposed to talk with his. Mine is leery of doing too much with the criminal case ongoing. I am documenting, and recording when I can.
