I totally understand you, Fogg. And maybe I expressed myself poorly, but I don't think I need to forgive my STBXW for anything. It's my fault as it's hers. For me to be in a position to forgive her I would have to be a victim, which I am not.
Me43 W39 M 12y,T 15y S09,S07 Bomb Jun14 Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15 Share bed Mar/May15 Reconcile Jun15 Aug15 W sais D will happen D told to kids Sept15 W moved out with kids 01 October15
