hey enigma,

To answer your question, W is just asking for S. She says she has been holding off with it because she could see how bad it was affecting me. but now that I was not going to her parents house she feels that I am ready for it, so she took her rings off.

It just a point of limbo now. I see she filled the sink with dirty dishes today and didn't empty the dishwasher. Last night before she came home I did all the dishes and started the dishwasher. So she has decided that I should have emptied the dishwasher this morning??? She is working late tonight so I will take care of it. Small stuff for sure. This is why she unloads it more then me, she feeds the kids breakfast in the morning, I don't eat and am gone early. Why would she get mad about that, I load the DW at night but I guess that doesn't count for anything???

I think I am doing well if that's the biggest issue right now. good thing she is leaving me, no one can live like that with such big problems, (joking)


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016