hey OTW,

What would your W say about this arrangement? If she disagrees I don't think there is anything you could do anyway. If she agrees then there you go , your the parents, and an agreement between the both of you will work.

But I think this crying will pass as this becomes the normal, you have to expect a transition period.

Maybe keep notes on it, if a couple weeks later he is still upset, you there maybe a problem. Then with that past history of crying, you could talk to your W.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016