otw, thank you for the feedback. It may sound a little harsh but I was very calm and soft spoken. Also, she is very harsh and hardened WW. I know she doesn't like it when I clam up or walk away but should I allow her to continue to make demands of me while being disrespectful or not respecting my boundaries? I don't feel I should. I guess it could feel to her like I'm trying to control her. If I understand things correctly I'm not supposed to worry about what she is thinking or doing. What I am supposed to do is create boundaries for myself. Create the type of interactions I'm willing to participate in. I have stated to her dozens of times how interrupting makes me feel. If I allow her to interrupt me and I give in to her demands am I not being firm and confident man? I believe I would continue to show her she can bully me, disrespect me, and still get whatever she wants.


Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place