To be more specific. Suggestions such as going dark in the 37 rules but I read about complimenting her on little things. Seems to be a conflict to me.
Knowing that she wants to separate after the school year, sometimes I feel that I should say Why Wait? Should I tell her If she wants to separate, leave now! If her only reason to wait is for the kids sake, why prolong the inevitable?
I want so much to stay with her but I can't sit back and pretend nothing is wrong. As mentioned earlier, my boys have no idea. The family spent the weekend at our boys hockey tournament. It was cordial but I hate the feeling of deception towards my children. I don't know how much longer I can sit back and wait to see if she will follow through on her threat.
I also think, If she wants to separate, there is no way I will be the one to move out. Inside, I am getting angrier as each day passes.
Don't count the days, make the days count. Mohammad Ali
