I will add that I did surprisingly keep my cool. I just didn't hold back anything I have been thinking. I put everything in my mind into words, makes my chest feel a little bit lighter but my heart a little heavier... I was stern with all of my thoughts. I also asked a few questions. I did however mess up by telling her that I still care about her. I'll add more later as I'm still trying to comprehend all that was said


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home