Vise: With me the inhouse separation is the bedrooms and she has an ensuite and I use the bathroom (and sometimes the ensuite for a shower) . There are zero no-go areas but privacy is respected. I knock on her bedroom door if it is closed. She wont let me see her naked or in underwear. Downstairs is as before BD.
With the house and D: A house separation would mean me renting at least for a year at a cost of �12000 including all bills. We cant afford it without severe cutbacks. No foreign holidays, cutting our savings plans for the kids, cutting cable tv etc,
In the UK, D is after 2 years if there is no-fault. 1 year if adultery, unreasonable behaviour. Then W would probably try to buy me out of the house using some money from her parents and all her savings as part of the D settlement. If interest rates go up, house prices go up and she gets one year older, she probably couldn't afford it and then the house would be sold.
Last edited by isittoolate; 11/09/1504:31 PM.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
