Wow, mind is blown 10

[Uphill]

After sleeping on this information I am more angry than upset.

Just to fill everybody in on how this all came to light. XF and S4 were at a wedding last weekend. A friend of a friend posted a video of a bunch of kids dancing. From the "start screen" I could see S4 tearing up the dance floor haha. So like any dad I clicked on it to see what it was all about. Shortly after the video starts, S4 goes back into the crowd. The camera followed him because he was the funniest on the floor. He ran back to XF who was standing there with OM all over her. For the next 3 minutes the camera went from the dance floor to S4, who was trying to get XF's attention. She didn't budge. Didn't acknowledge him at all for those 3 minutes. Finally she breaks free and it looks like a chore to go watch him.

I saw that, sat on it for a few hours and then couldn't do it anymore. I told her if OM is that important to her that she can't pay attention to S4, to let me know, I will make sure he is taken care of. Of course she tried to downplay it as hearsay, I said watch the video, no question about how it happened. She then admitted that they are a "thing" and have been for some time.

Anyways, my trust is completely gone now. I don't like that fact that S4 has to be around stuff like this. Before the 2x4's come from what I was thinking about last week, I would not have been around anybody while I had S4. That is the real kicker. He doesn't deserve to have to watch his mom be groped by a stranger to him...