What he posted wasn't an approach. It was an attitude. If he starts developing the self-righteous attitude where she is a dirty sinner and should repent her sins, or whatever, he is going to lose it all with this concentration on the negative. Plus it is filled with control. When you start feeling the need for self-righteousness and control, you'll end up feeling nothing but resentment for your spouse which will definitely help your situation.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.