Triangulation (Differences between WAHs and WAWs 4

[JulieH]

So basically i rarely have any interaction with husband. Every other weekend when he picks and drops kids off and very briefly. The other day we were at event together. He initiated small talk with me quite frequently. I really wasn't in the mood to talk to him. I was polite but not involved at all. A friend told me she is happy that he seems so uncomfortable. I kind of feel like he has already hurt me so what else can possibly be done.

Plus More and more of my thoughts are focused on the idea that he might be right. We will be better off separated. I think about a comment he made to me saying " the most difficult thing for him is what he stands to lose financially". And I think to myself after 14 years together and children, finances is the thing he is most upset about??? That says more about him and his priorities then about me.

I am dreading the confrontation that will come with the legal and financial aspect. I wish I could just afford for us to just go our separate ways without having to deal with him.