Mleigh-that is great news about your son! You must be so proud!
I laughed out loud at the laser light show. 15 minutes worth?!? I cannot even imagine what your cat was doing during all this!
Sounds like you are in a good, calm place these days.
Sending you positive karma.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced