LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M (4)

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I guess the term righteous anger comes off harsher than intended. It's more maintaining my firm boundaries of not tolerating or enabling her disrespectful actions. She will not see any anger from me. She will only see me standing up for myself.

I'm not waiting for her. I am getting my own life and doing my own things but my commitment to M has not changed. What I mean by this is that I am still married and I will not step out on that. I will not treat her as a W but I will not throw away my integrity either. I will not create additional obstacles by acting like I'm not M.