I didn't really ask those questions because I was just out for a meal and some company Dr has lived away from her homeland for 8 of those years in Canada
Re an EA , I don't think I would see it that way. EXW has made her choices , she removed her ring and while there is a legal bond , the M is over.
Should EXW announce a new R then that's her choice and likewise for myself
I wanted EXW to have her space and decide what she wanted. She has had her space , she has been suicidail , she has told me she does not regret our M , is sorry for her actions last year and sorry for saying things that hurt me and does not feel she rejected me but her life. She still says she does not know what she's wants and is often in tears re her life At the end of the day she left her children, myself and our family life Actions speak louder than words and her actions are what they are
Also reconciliation would seem to be impossible due to the hurt and lies. I do appreciate that people do overcome this , I'm not sure I could