LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M (4)

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I'm very thankful for this space and the people here. It is a perfect place to receive advice, support and to talk through sitch's and to make declarations which help me follow through. Thank you everyone.
Since posting earlier I've put my ring back on. I took it off bc I am angry with her. I will not show her an uncontrolled anger but only a righteous anger. I realized, for me, leaving it off would be to get a reaction from her. I'm leaving it on bc, again for me, it is a sign to me that i am committed to this M. I'm committed to her. I will not ever again tolerate the abuse, unfaithfulness or playing second fiddle to OM but I will give her every opportunity to change her ways and prove she is recommitted to the M. I expect and am hoping for the best but preparing for the worst.