Thought I might list my 180s, and write a few words about them. Hoping it might do me good.
My first one is living my life entirely for myself.
I would like to change the emphasis in my life, from supporting my H (and also supporting him in his career, which has been a huge burden) to just living for myself.
I realise I've done so much for him in the time we've been married, from small everyday things to massive things. Now, because he has left, I'm not doing them any more. I'm not reminding him to sign contracts or helping him send invoices, I'm not helping him with his work or work situations. There were lots and lots of things he couldn't be bothered doing, or found difficult. I've just stopped everything for him, dead.
It's still a bit strange at the moment. But it's easy to run my own life. I'm very organised, and I like keeping on top of things. That makes me feel good.
