Hi Ghost, sorry you are here, but the love you get here is restoring and healing. I believe Pho makes a great point. I have seen a change of name ( your handle) do wonders for people who are moving forward and making positive change. If the name has significant meaning to you, for sure feel empowered by it, but if it is a reflection of feeling less than. Bin it!!! Let a new name reflect the person who is moving forward, who you are and who you want to be. Be here, claim a space here! It's all yours!!!
