Ghost I love you too. Now go and sum yourself up- YOU define yourself. You. Not me, not any other DB'er, and most definitely not your wife. You, who should not be called Ghost because you are not a ghost, you are 100% real, go out and define yourself.
Who are you Ghost? You don't need to know the answer right now, but I want you to figure it out. I want you to become so confident in your abilities and your strengths and your place in this world that nobody, and I mean NOBODY can make you doubt your self worth.
