XH contacts kids:any thoughts

[Irish M]

Hi Peace

It's hard when they reach out.. My W has been missing in action now for 95 days with our D's. No contact at all

Last email to me was a sept 29 about money

Like AJ said, your D will decide for herself what kind of relationship she wants with her dad

You have shown her strength and security, that's something that He and OW have failed at big time.

Trust your gut I do mine. Trust your D as well :-)
My D's chose not to reach out to their Mom since that person is no longer existant for now. If she comes back and puts Her D's first and not just want to connect to make herself feel better, I'll help

If it's to clear their conscience ... Too bad for them.

Old wounds are just that. Old. You've delt with it already so put them back where they belong , on a deserted island , in a box or where ever and continue to move forward for you and your D

Irish