I am very livid this morning. I received a text from my wife telling me that she has changed her flight, because she went out last night and was too tired this morning. She had no consideration for whether I had any plans and more importantly about seeing her kids. We got into a heated discussion about it, in which she tells me that we are enemies, she doesn't care about me or respects me. This doesn't seem to bother her at all when she is asking or accepting my help....
I really don't know where to go from here. I am really disliking this situation and I am hurt and angry at the moment. I will begin becoming unavailable, as I have been. I will stop trying to be her hero or accommodating her with her requests. It astonishes me just how you go from loving and caring for one another to being this person who says that they don't care either way what we are.
I honestly have to work on my boundaries and not showing emotions. Not letting her rile me up so much, or caring what she is doing. I am seriously very shocked and so upset over this. I am ashamed of myself for allowing my self-respect and self-worth to be so little, especially since being friends or being married means so little to her.
M: 34 W: 33 S: 7 S: 14 months BD: 6/2015 Separation: 6/2015 Back and Forth between Home and Moms
