It seems like if I don’t post right away, I lose all the motivation, sigh… Today it doesn’t seem that interesting anymore. I'll go ahead and post anyway.

I expected to see some changes in the condo, since H told my mutual friends that he wanted to decorate to make it look like his home. When I got here, there were no changes, except for a couple of things that seem to be “planted” by that crazy woman, his friend. There were wine glasses on the table with the cloth napkins arranged nicely inside of them. Then I notices a small Christmas paper bag with a card attached to it, that had H’s name and some kind of signature. The cars is sealed. The bad was on the kitchen counter. It still is, LOL. I thought it was weird, because I’m sure there is plenty of time before Christmas when this woman can give H his present. Unless it is not from her… not sure 100%, but my bet would be on her. Then there was a roll with some sticky paper that can be put on the window to make a painted glass effect. It was in a very strange place, in the staircase between the floors. So, I put it in the bedroom.

Then I saw H’s clothes nicely folded and left on the dresser in the bedroom. This is not H’s style of folding the clothes, unless it is changed.

So, I asked my GF last night if they (she and her H) came to the condo to do some cleaning, as they would normally do. H left not knowing that he would let me to stay in the condo, so I assume he didn’t bother to clean it and change the sheets. He would normally ask our mutual friends to do that. Not this time. My GF confirmed that it probably was that crazy woman who came to do things. The clothes were probably in the dryer when H left, and she folded it. I’m almost sure that the rest of the items were “planted” for me to see.

Well, all that didn’t make any impression on me. I laughed and shook my head, but it didn’t bother me a bit. I came to the condo this time with the mindset that I’m only renting this place, and renting it for free, LOL. So, she can decorate all she wants. The only complaint I have is that if she was here for cleaning, she didn’t do a good job. This place needs some serious dusting (H hates dusting), and not wine glasses arranged nicely on the table, that would only collect more dust.

I noticed that this time I didn’t really want to check everywhere to see if the things were still there, or if there were new things in the condo. I only checked that my stuff was still where it is supposed to be, and that’s it. Wow! This is huge progress for me. I guess I just don’t care anymore. I’m here to enjoy myself and have a good time.

This was meant to be short post. Going to town to meet up with my friends for the Festival that is going on in town this weekend. There a number of my (and H’s friends) who also came for the festival. It is going to be a busy weekend with lots of partying.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state