That's the thing, you need to know if and how you can enforce it before you say it. Don't pop off something to her, and then come ask us how can you enforce it. Know what I mean?
Got it. I am catching on here.
Originally Posted By: sandi2
Why did you take part of the talk?
No reason other than I am a sucker for my wife (not completely detached.. I was weak).
Originally Posted By: sandi2
Why are you leaving text messages on your phone that your W can read? She will be finding you on this board if you are not more careful.
I was away from my phone taking a shower when the text message came through. I did delete prior messages. W shared that another woman expressing how she was feeling without any prior text message; that I was hiding something (I did not respond other than saying I am not having an A but I wanted to say.. you speaking from experience.. because that’s what she did when I speculated and confronted her on her A).
Originally Posted By: sandi2
Seriously? B/c another woman is texting her H! Just b/c she fired you doesn't mean she's not still jealous. A woman is very complexed. Add waywardness to the woman, and you have multiplied the complexity several times.
