Thank you Sandi, your post to me about getting serious, after my reaction to finding out about OP really did help wake me up. I cant show my gratitude enough through these posts! So I will continue to post and hopefully bring some light to others who are in the dark.
It is astounding how much ones outlook on things can change when one truly shifts their efforts away from the spouse onto oneself.
M: 29 W: 28 D: 8 S:1 M: 10 T: 11 BD1: 8//15 (physically separate) Back together: 4/16 BD2: 3/18, physically separate 6/18) Here we are again.
So I will continue to post and hopefully bring some light to others who are in the dark. 