You two are great. I am smiling now. Here's something to shake your head at. I was off today. I was working in the garage next to her car. This is the first time I see her today. The garage door goes up and she puts her work stuff in the trunk. I look at her and say "Good Morning" and look for a response. She will not look at me. Does not say anything, walks straight to the drivers door and gets in. She starts the car, backs out, closes the door with the opener and proceeds down the driveway. No looking, no salutation just getting out of my presence asap.

My wife for whatever reason does not want anything to do with me. That is her choice and I respect it. I will act like a gentleman, treat her and my children well. Her sister and family will spend Thanksgiving with us here in our house and I will laugh, entertain, treat them well and try to make it the best Thanksgiving we have ever had. This will not define me. She will not define me. To tell you the truth I think that me behaving well causes her conflict. If that's the case here's to good behavior.

Please remind me of this tomorrow when I am at the bottom of the sine wave.

Last edited by mutatio; 11/06/15 10:06 PM.


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