It helped with us spending more time together but she still leaves to go to him. Why should she get my best if she wants him. He can be all that for her and I'll focus on myself.

She moved out in July and still hadn't got her own place. She stays in the Army barracks. But she uses my house on the weekend to see our son. Do I put my foot down and tell her she can't use my house anymore. I think she is stalling so she doesn't have to take our son at night and can do her thing.