I just feel that her whole perspective had been distorted after reading this book I am not trying to diminish anything that I have done and if she felt abused and controled and deeply unhappy then this is defiantly something I need and want to address.
It's your perception that has been distorted, too. Why do you feel you need to address it? You do not have to agree with her. To address this "issue" at this time is not what you need to do. It would only result in her manipulating you more than she does now. Don't you think you are taking all the blame here?
I agree with Azzork, that you need to take a week off. But just don't stay away, like some people do.
You need to find your own self worth, Ghost. She doesn't decide it, you do.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
