Zero steps forward

[Pax_luv]

Hello! Hope everyone had a nice week.

I need some guidance: tonight at dog swap, i am going to need to grab more clothes from our house. Im cold and need warm clothes! Ive been avoiding doing this because i dont want h to start the convo about me moving all my stuff out. (We were supposed to just have a trial s which is why i only packed my summer clothes and about 75% of my belongings are still at the house)

I get that im fearing something that hasnt happened yet, but im wondering what do, say, and how to say it.

H:we need to figure out a date for you to move the rest of your stuff out. You can borrow the truck if you need it.

M:thank you, this is still my house too and i plan to keep my things here until im ready to move it out
Or: im not moving the rest of my stuff out until you file
Or......????

I just dont know what to say. Yes, i am fearful that if i move all my stuff then we really are over. Its totally irrational since stuff isnt going to make any potential r....but what would you do and say?