Working on improving Ghost

[ATPeace]

I would agree I do have problem listening and hearing what she said yes sometimes I shout at the kids I never shouted at my W ....raised my voice in a heated argument yes did I get up in her face when we argued ..no never

One of the things that she hi lighted was I towered over Her i guess she ment in an argument I am 5 foot 5 inches tall she is 5 foot 3inches this just did not happen

I just feel that her whole perspective had been distorted after reading this book I am not trying to diminish anything that I have done and if she felt abused and controled and deeply unhappy then this is defiantly something I need and want to address.

I cannot just ask her ...hey out of interest did you feel that I was abusive before you read the book I just could not ask this tho I am tempted .....don't worry I would not ask this .

For now I will stay on the program if just to better myself and try and understand where I went wrong and where she went wrong