Azzork is 100% right. Not to hijack your thread but I have changed so much since BD, and definitely done 180's in the areas where H had his biggest complaints. Went to MC last night and H was complaining that I don't like to ride my bike. Which proves to me that it really isn't about me.

I can guarantee that if I got on a bike today and started getting into it, he'd be excited about it for a week, then he'd get silent again and probably complain next time that I don't knit. Or skydive. Or whatever. It is not about me, and it is not about you.