[quote=isittoolate. Though I also want to see it. My needs first? [/quote]
Hey is, don't use your needs as a crutch.
If you told her you are not going to be friends because xxx, then that is your stance. Going with her is only going to weaken your position.
There are literally million other people you can go to the movies with that aren't your friend.
Don't lose site of the prize, you dropping the rope and detaching. Going to see a movie, although an action flick is a date...you were fired ad her husband, you are not her friend right now....makes sense???
Be strong, you will be tested...I can assure you of that.
