PS W told me last night of a big project in work that she has to complete by 8th Dec.

That is a tight deadline and if she gets it wrong it would have consequences for years to come as it is to do with a new build project.

Over the last 4 years I have supported her immensely at work, she is a manager and often can't vent at work, so she comes home and I listen,listen,listen and make her feel better, just for talking about it. I have been consistently good with this, and never tried to 'fix' her problems.

SHe has had very little pressure these last 6 months or so, but now pressure will mount at work for the next 4 weeks. Will she turn to me??? For sure.

What do I do? Make myself available or not?

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16