Stop googling things. This is where you're getting good advice. It's up to you if you take it, but it does feel like we're going around in circles. It's like this; she's manipulating your behaviour to waive her guilt. The more she can blame on you, the more guilt she can circumnavigate.
So, you forced her to get pregnant? How did you do that? Did you force her in to unprotected sex? Did you stop her from having an abortion if she wanted it? Nope, thought not.
You're spinning out of control here. You have to stop all this nonsense about going to battered wife's groups and relationship talks with our wife. It's just counterproductive. You're no further forward than when you started. None of us want our relationships to fall apart, but, at the moment, our other halves are in loo-loo land and they can't hold rational thoughts and conversations.
At the end of the day, if she leaves, what will Ghost look like? Will Ghost be sat at the side of the road crying his eyes out, or will Ghost be an upstanding man that she might look at again and think 'what have I done'? Come on, man up.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
