ancaire, I didn't realize alcohol was involved with your situation as well. possibly in my case too, but wasn't sure if it was crutch because he was unhappy with marriage or if that is what led to his walking out. (Discovered 13 bottles of hard liquor hidden in less then 2 month period and then a additional 9 bottles hidden...was suggested by one of his family members that he likes to save and hold onto bottles) I rarely drink and I have never been exposed to any type of addiction or substance abuse issues in my family so I am very unfamiliar with signs and dynamics. I am afraid that I am looking to alcohol as excuse or easy answer when really it is our marriage.
Mustard seed, I love the feeling of indifference. I went out to city recently and felt great. But only for a few days post and I think it was only due to some needed male attention. I have been seeing what I assume are meet up groups and have been wondering about them myself. My schedule is so weird and I have such a limited time to try them but was thinking of it. Will have to get up the nerve. Wish I could find one for single parents! Do you find that a lot of people that go to them are in similar situations as us?
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
