Sadly, there was drama. H's lawyer got papers from my L informing them we would be pursuing spousal support. H came into my room as I was getting out of the shower and proceeded to berate me on how my refusal to work with him was going to cost thousands of dollars.
I told him to talk to his lawyer. He continued to badger me. I told him to talk to his lawyer again. He called me stupid. I told him I was through discussing it, and to get out of my room. He went ape, and told me he was going to have me thrown out of the house. I said go ahead. He then told me he was going to have my arse thrown back in jail. I told him my L has a restraining order ready to go. Leave me alone, or I'm calling her.(bluff)
He left. Happy Anniversary.
I had a great time with my daughter, and an unexpected guest...My niece! We went shopping and had dinner together. When we got home, H was here. He studiously ignored me while being quite thrilled to see the girls.
All in all a good day. I stood my ground in the face of his fury and still had an excellent afternoon with two of my favorite people. I was laughing and smiling tonight, while looking really good. I could tell he was not happy. Shed a tear just once today for about a second. Today went way better than I expected.