First communication or seeing XF since Sunday happened tonight at a S4 swap. I took him to her apartment and went in looking ever so stellar! sat his bag down and told her a few things for logistics. Went to give him a hug and kiss and leave right away and he wasn't having that. Started fighting with me at the door to stay. Throwing a hissy fit type thing. I overcame that, picked him up and started wrestling around with him. He was laughing in no time! At one point I caught XF out of the corner of my eye and she was just staring. The next time I turned that way she was staring at the floor chewing on a fingernail. Almost like she didn't want to see me being so good with him.
I'll don't think it changes anything but it felt like a win in my book!
Week total. Uphill 1, XF 0. Haha
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
sat his bag down and told her a few things for logistics. Went to give him a hug and kiss and leave right away and he wasn't having that. Started fighting with me at the door to stay. Throwing a hissy fit type thing. I overcame that, picked him up and started wrestling around with him. He was laughing in no time! At one point I caught XF out of the corner of my eye and she was just staring. The next time I turned that way she was staring at the floor chewing on a fingernail. Almost like she didn't want to see me being so good with him. 