Yes it helped. Firstly it helped me understand further your situation. I may have comments on that later, but for now I am glad you appreciate the
ddifference.

As for me, I guess it helped too. It does give hope that progress is possible. It also gives food for thought. It took me back through my last few years.Boy would I do so much different now, if I could go back a few years.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together