in house seperation (3)

[gs9]

Let her be mad. You aren't responsible for her reaction or behavior.
It's tough to realize this. My wife has a nasty temper. I tip toed around her for years. Not anymore. I've stated that I will not tolerate anyone speaking to me the way she does. When she would start spewing at me, I would put in my headphones and calmly walk away. A couple times I returned a little later to remind her that no one will speak to me this way and if she wanted to speak with me we could have an adult conversation with out the yelling and name calling.
Her behavior has changed. There's been a drastic decrease in outburst.