Yesterday, WW and I talked for 1.5 hours on MR. I started the conversation by asking why was she upset; knowing that she is probably upset that I removed her from bank account and that I received a text from another woman.
I guessed it. She said she needed to protect herself from me since I can just take her off of bank account.. that she was going to open her own bank account.. that she needed to watch out for herself. But in my mind I was thinking, she did it to me first by taking 2k in cash and not telling me (she put the 2k back into account a few days later but I did not know). The bank account I closed, I told her that I changed the account to a higher yield savings but forgot to tell her and the bank forgot to add her as joint owner.. semi true but the underlining reason I did it was to protect myself and my kids; being responsible (because I do not know her and what she might do). Oh.. She did share she was going to buy another purse with that 2k. REALLY?!?.. again thinking to myself.. are you FU#@ crazy.. a 2k purse!!
W called me a hypocrite. She said I pretended to be suffering from her A but here I was texting another woman. I shared she has been a friend for a long time and I have mentioned her name when I use to work at that former company (and I honestly have no feelings towards female friend.. feels like any another other female acquaintance/friend/co-worker/etc). Not sure if she believed me but why should she care (why is she upset and giving me attitude)? She is the one who turned away from our R.
Those were the 2 new topics. Rest of conversation is the same.. the abortion surfaces.. tears begin to flow.. how I was not there for her.. and I agree (I have to be honest.. looking at our R prior to abortion through her eyes I would not want to be with me either).. but I am making small changes to improve myself.
After talk, things fall back into a typical night. Dinner together as a family. W and I go out doing our parent volunteer work together while kids at their sport practices. Did I just fall for the WW trap?
