It is going to be ok, and this to and fro is part of it. It is that which you have to do to heal. Unless you can heal those FOO issues you will keep on going, you will keep on being in these types of Rs.
It is familiar resolution of issues from your childhood and it will change. I have started looking at this research I do from a more academic stance and I came across some decent research on my view of ACES.
Msd you are very strong, it is your willingness to tackle your stuff.
I see the HOW principle in action, honesty, openness and willingness, all of these and 12 steps are part of the plan to change. I really want healing for you. The strength you showed in those last months at the school was extraordinary.
It has been my honour, privilege and delight to share with you as Gg did with me. Zelda helped me put the thread together that 'stores' information and I do hope she is healing. I am so proud of you as it can be easy to buy the sweet cycle over and over.
There are several sitches here that have this element in them, some male and some female. When a spell break occurs that's when the poster is most open to change and realisation but also most open to sweet cycle.
Anc and you both have triangulation in the sitch and the third party is law enforcement. Abuse and manipulation like this is so very tough.
I am really glad you are here on this board.
Hugs
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 11/05/1510:51 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
